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Friday, August 26, 2011

A Learning Experience

I was alerted to a blog post I wrote two years ago about my negative experience with Companion X by a client of his who wanted to protect his reputation. She had a perfect right to do so. After having a conversation with X, I decided the post will remain where it is. That's how I felt at the time and I was only being honest about how everything really was for me. I believe we learn something from both positive and negative experiences. We were able to straighten everything out and I have a new found respect for him because of it.

Over the last two years that I've been involved in the world of companionship, I have experienced both pleasurable and painful times. There's a saying that goes: "Don't regret anything because at the time that was exactly what you wanted." So I have decided to tell myself, no regrets. Although I never intended to get as deeply involved in this world as I have, there was a good reason why I did. If I can help anyone out there, whether it's a lady or couple looking to hire a male escort for the first time, a man who's thinking about being a male companion and wants to know where to start, male and female providers who've been in the profession for a while, or just some random person out there who's curious about my blog, it's all good with me. :-)

A couple of months ago I went to a swingers party in Pahrump with a good friend of mine. I'm not into the "lifestyle", but I decided to check it out. It was "slow" that night, so there was really no action going on. This was shortly before the Fourth of July, so that may have been the reason. One of the hosts of the party had a little debate with me about the lifestyle versus hiring a professional. He asked me, "Why go through all the trouble of hiring a guy when you can find someone at one of our parties?"

My answer was simple: "Because I'm looking for an experience. I want to hire someone for the evening that will be attentive to me, take me out to a nice dinner, fancy hotel, drinks, dancing, the works. Someone of quality, high class, well-dressed, and well-mannered. Yeah, you could find someone at the swinger's club to hook up with, but it doesn't necessarily mean he will have all these qualities. What's wrong with paying for it? If that's what people are into, I don't think there's a problem."

His wife then told me of an experience she had with a gentleman (she didn't say he was a pro) who took her out for a night of dinner and dancing, then she spent the night with him in his suite at the Wynn. They didn't use their real names. Surprisingly, he wanted to know her name, but she refused to give it to him because it would ruin the fantasy.

The host told me he used to be a male escort. He was very good at it and made a lot of money. But he said it was very difficult because there's a lot of pressure to be this "perfect" fantasy figure for every client. Every client is different, so the companion has to play a role of what she expects him to be. He said something interesting, though. He said, "There were certain things that I couldn't do. There was this gray area and it was very difficult for me."

I didn't mention my experience, but I knew exactly what it meant. He didn't have to explain any more. With that being said, my blog also serves as a cautionary tale.

This blog will be here for as long I feel the need to help others through what I've learned from my personal experience. Thank you again for reading it. I appreciate and welcome all your comments.